Resuming sexual relations after surgery can be an important aspect to a patient’s recovery, enriching their quality of life, yet it is rarely discussed. It is a subject that you may be embarrassed to ask about, but information that we feel needs to be addressed and shared.
Knee Replacement Surgery
In the United States, 84% of people who have had knee replacements are sexually active. One of the biggest concerns after total knee replacement is the ability to kneel during activities. This can have a big impact for men and women during sexual interactions.
One study in the Journal of Arthroplasty asked people about their sexual function before and after total knee replacement. They reported knee pain, loss of motion and inability to kneel as the most common factors limiting their sexual activity before surgery. It took two months on average for people in the study to return to sex after total knee replacement. About 60% reported no change in sexual activity, 7% had less sex, 16% stopped having sex, and only 15% reported having more sex.This study highlights a few important points:
Knee Replacement Surgery
In the United States, 84% of people who have had knee replacements are sexually active. One of the biggest concerns after total knee replacement is the ability to kneel during activities. This can have a big impact for men and women during sexual interactions.
One study in the Journal of Arthroplasty asked people about their sexual function before and after total knee replacement. They reported knee pain, loss of motion and inability to kneel as the most common factors limiting their sexual activity before surgery. It took two months on average for people in the study to return to sex after total knee replacement. About 60% reported no change in sexual activity, 7% had less sex, 16% stopped having sex, and only 15% reported having more sex.This study highlights a few important points:
- Sexual limitations before surgery are not completely eliminated after total knee replacement.
- You can expect only mild to moderate gains with kneeling during intercourse.
- You can expect gradual improvement in sexual function up to one year after knee replacement surgery due to diminished pain and improved motion.
There are differing opinions regarding when you can safely resume sexual activity after having knee replacement surgery. Our general guidelines are:
- Wait until knee incision is healed, normally 1-3 months
- Early in recovery, find alternate ways to be intimate beside intercourse
- Although there are normally no limitations in your physical activity after knee replacement,
you may have some discomfort with bending or kneeling - Take it slow and discuss with your partner what movements are comfortable for you and
what positions may cause soreness or tenderness - If you feel pain, stop
- Adapt to new positions that may offer more comfort and pleasure
- Have realistic expectations and advance your movement as you recover
- Talk to your surgeon if you have any questions
Hip Replacement Surgery
There are differing opinions regarding when you can safely resume sexual activity after having hip replacement surgery. Our general guidelines are:
There are differing opinions regarding when you can safely resume sexual activity after having hip replacement surgery. Our general guidelines are:
- Wait until hip incision is healed, normally 1-3 months
- Early in recovery, find alternate ways to be intimate beside intercourse
- Some surgeons will give you restrictions in your movement while your hip is healing, such as
crossing your legs or bending at the waist greater than 90 degrees. Follow your surgeon’s
discharge instructions. This is to prevent complications such as hip dislocation - You may encounter some discomfort in your physical activity during recovery; take it slow
- If you feel pain, stop
- Adapt to new positions that may offer more comfort and pleasure
- Share with your partner what movements are comfortable for you and what positions may
cause soreness or tenderness - Talk to your surgeon if you have any questions
Frequently Asked Questions
When can I resume intercourse or sexual activity after hip replacement?
Most patients can expect to return to sexual activity once their incisions have healed and when their post-operative pain and swelling allow.In limited studies of patients who had hip replacement, return to intercourse occurred at around 6 weeks after surgery.
How will I know when I am ready to resume sexual activity?
Each patient will be ready at a different time. If you are not sure whether you are ready, consensual sexual activity with oral or digital stimulation is often an easier transition before resuming intercourse. Self-stimulation (masturbation) can also help you become more comfortable with the idea of resuming sexual activity before you resume with a partner. Open communication between partners and resuming activity at a slow pace is recommended.
Will sexual activity be painful after my hip replacement?
In the first months after surgery, some pain, stiffness, and discomfort of the surgical joint is expected — especially as new activities are added, including sexual activity.Both partners should be prepared to stop, adjust, communicate, or, if necessary, agree to try again another time if the patient is uncomfortable.
What should I tell my partner about my hip replacement?
Explain that your return to satisfactory sexual activity may take some time and may at first require more planning, which means less spontaneity. Before starting sexual activity, come up with a plan for communicating with each other about what is pleasurable and what is not as well as what feels safe for both partners. This plan can guide activities and help you have less anxiety and fewer disruptions.
Which positions are safe during intercourse if I have hip precautions?
With both partners lying side-by-side, standing, or lying with legs extended, or even with the patient's hip flexed to 90º, patients should be able to find sexual positions that are both safe and comfortable.Examples of safe positions include:
- Missionary with the patient on top or bottom — which may initially be challenging if the receptive partner is on top
- Both partners standing (if balance is steady, or with support of wall or furniture; leaning on furniture can be especially helpful if the patient is standing)
- Patient lying on bed, buttocks close to edge of bed so that knees are bent toward the floor, with partner standing or kneeling, facing patient
- Side-lying with nonsurgical leg down, and surgical leg (top) supported to avoid twisting and crossing legs
Using cushions to support the legs or joints during sexual activity can also be helpful. Most surgical instructions for recovery will contain positions to avoid, and often, these include deep hip flexion (bringing the knee up to the chest), like kneeling on top of your partner.
Why is it important to follow hip precautions during sexual activity? What can happen if I do not?
The new hip joint does not have the same stability as a native hip joint that has not undergone surgery. Until the surgery has healed to allow the body to provide more stability with the muscles and tendons surrounding the hip, there is a greater risk for hip dislocation — when the ball comes out of the socket.Hip dislocation is a painful, traumatic experience, and your hip precautions are in place to prevent this from happening.Hip dislocation is more common when there is also force applied, as with sexual activity. In most studies, the receptive intercourse partner has higher risk of these positions and forces during sexual activity.
Is it safe to use or resume erectile dysfunction (ED) supplements or medications?
As with starting or resuming most medications, this should be discussed with your primary care provider, as well as the surgeon who performs your hip replacement.These medications have side effects that may be more pronounced (you may notice them more) during a surgical recovery and should be used only under the guidance of a physician or health care provider.
What about taking birth control after hip replacement surgery?
Some hormonal contraceptives (birth control pills, patches, rings, coils) have been linked to increased risk of blood clots, which is also a risk after hip replacement surgery. To prevent additional risk of clots, your surgeon may want you to stop using hormonal contraceptives for a specific period of time before or after your procedure. The timing of restarting these medications should be discussed with your surgeon, and you may need to use other (non-hormonal) forms of contraception in the meantime if you are concerned about pregnancy.
12 Common Sexual Positions for the Recovering Total Hip Replacement Patient’s Reference
- Green check √ mark shows a permissible sexual position.
- Red X means this position is not advised for patients recovering from hip replacement surgery.
Charbonnier C, Chagué S, Ponzoni M, et al. Sexual Activity After Total Hip Arthroplasty: A Motion Capture Study. J Arthroplasty [Internet]. 2014; 29(3): 640-7. Available from: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24018159
References:
I. A Guide to Returning to Sexual Activity Following Hip Replacement Surgery - AAHKS 2018
A Guide to Returning to Sexual Activity Following Hip Replacement Surgery - AAHKS (hipkneeinfo.org)
A Guide to Returning to Sexual Activity Following Hip Replacement Surgery - AAHKS (hipkneeinfo.org)
This article has been written and peer reviewed by the AAHKS Patient and Public Relations Committee and the AAHKS Evidence Based Medicine Committee. Links to these pages or content used from the articles must be given proper citation to the American Association of Hip and Knee Surgeons. Revised 2018.
References:
References:
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https://www.orthoinfo.org/en/recovery/sexual-activity-after-hip-replacement/
Journal of Orthopedics and Orthopedic Surgery
Published on: June 29, 2023
Published on: June 29, 2023